The first step is connecting with your child's world that begins with active, one-on-one, non-judgmental listening. It requires a new mindset. You will learn the child's thought fears that limit and harm as well as those that are motivating and protecting your child. Over time, proper guidance can assure cooperation and a resilient and caring child!

You will gain the trust of your child and the people around you by demonstrating that you are capable of setting up structure with the best interest of your child in mind. A solid structure will allow you to be the stong role model you were destined to be!

Truth is a two-way street between you and your child which can lead to a deep, lasting relationship. The truth incudes your expressing certain thought fears to the child in a way that your child understands your concerns for the child. Show that you want do the best for the child!

The challenge is to bring out the goodness and caring that lies within all children by listening, gaining trust, and being truthful. In this way the bonding and hugging can remain into adulthood!